Tuesday, October 16, 2007
Battling / Choosing / Winning / Losing
One thing I am trying to keep in mind these days is to really learn the art of choosing my own battles. I think on any given day, we will encounter at least two situations or people which will just make our temperatures rise, our eyes to roll and our stress levels to rise. However, not in all circumstances should we choose to react. Sometimes, the best reaction is to not react.
There was a time when I felt like I was on a warpath, wanting to eliminate anything that impeded on my personal space. However, I have learned that there are battles just not worth fighting simply because it wastes your time and energy. Plus, it adds the likelihood that I will be very wrinkled in three years.
I do admit that it can be tough sometimes especially when hormones are getting in the way of much-needed grounded reason. However, wasted energy, negative feelings and harsh actions will only warrant what it deserves.
There are battles simply not meant to be fought: the rude person in the train, the annoying guy on the street, etc. It is wiser to keep your sanity for things that in the end are worth it -- just because it will help you become a better person.
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